Confess
“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. ” James 5:16 ESV I don't think James is so much talking about physical healing necessarily so much as spiritual and emotional healing. We all get hurt emotionally etc. We can be healed though. Even if hurt has been done to us, we all have sins we need to confess. Hurt people hurt. Even unforgiveness is sin. If God forgives, so should we. The Christian life isn't so much J.A.M. (Jesus And Me) as J.O.Y. (Jesus, Others, You). We're not to be self absorbed. Instead, we are to 'do life together' instead of in isolation. We might not feel righteous. We might feel sinful. Yet if we trust in Christ, his righteousness is credited to our bankrupt spiritual accounts. 'Gracious God, help us to prove the truth of this verse in our lives. For your honour and praise we ask this, amen'.